I have noticed a social media presence I am not so fond of-that being the "stan". Can someone please explain what it is (I know enough to not be enthusiastic about it, but I'm still confused as to what it is) and why it exists?
Are you talking about the word used to describe a really big (obsessive) fan of something? Cause that’s all it means. It comes from the Eminem song of the same name.
One of the DEH threads discusses this quite a bit on the reg board.
But it's not seen (somehow) as a negative. People seem to work to achieve the STAN factor. (Although lots of people use it in jest - just to show they are huge fans.)
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.
It's become more of a slang term, used to describe somebody who is a very devoted fan of something or somebody. Most "stans" don't actually engage in real stalking. For example, if a person owns every single Lady Gaga album and knows every word to every song, and has seen her in concert multiple times, and owns lots of her merch, they would be considered a "stan".
dramamama611 said: "One of the DEH threads discusses this quite a bit on the reg board.
But it's not seen (somehow) as a negative. People seem to work to achieve the STAN factor. (Although lots of people use it in jest - just to show they are huge fans.)"
I see...it just seems like-in my experience and from what I've seen on social media-that these people are extremely over what they call their "faves". It's like a competition. It's awful because it's like they place a claim on actors and shows. They think they're best friends with the actors. While I'm sure that's true of a select number of people....the stans get incredibly overprotective of their faves and almost don't let anyone else be a fan? Then if someone has one minute critique of that performer, the whole "stan community" comes out in full force to attack that person just for their opinion. It seems like a very clique-y and toxic environment...